Did You Grow Up With a Problem Drinker?

Did you grow up in a home with alcohol? The following questions may help you determine if Al‑Anon is for you.

  1. Do you constantly seek approval and affirmation?

  2. Do you fail to recognize your accomplishments?

  3. Do you fear criticism?

  4. Do you overextend yourself?

  5. Have you had problems with your own compulsive behavior?

  6. Do you have a need for perfection?

  7. Are you uneasy when your life is going smoothly, continually anticipating problems?

  8. Do you feel more alive in the midst of crisis?

  9. Do you still feel responsible for others, as you did for the problem drinker in your life?

  10. Do you care for others easily, yet find it difficult to care for yourself?

  11. Do you isolate yourself from other people?

  12. Do you respond with fear to authority figures and angry people?

  13. Do you have trouble with intimate relationships?

  14. Do you confuse pity with love, as you did with the problem drinker?

  15. Do you attract and/or seek people who tend to be compulsive and/or abusive?

  16. Do you cling to relationships because you are afraid of being alone?

  17. Do you often mistrust your own feelings and the feelings expressed by others?

  18. Do you find it difficult to identify and express your emotions?

  19. Do you think parental drinking may have affected you?

If you have answered “Yes” to any of these questions Al-Anon may be able to help. Click here to learn more about Al-Anon.